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To Resign or Not Resign
Sometimes when a spouse steps away from the church this can take many forms. There is no one way. Here a ...
Read MoreParent’s Worst Fear
The worst fear of many parents is that their kids leave the church. It is sometimes the case in a mixed ...
Read MoreHome Study Course
Maybe you have been in a mixed faith marriage for a while, maybe it is brand new territory, in either case ...
Read MoreFear Based Decisions
I am so afraid so often. I am afraid of my husband being done with me and my faith transition. I ...
Read MoreHow to deal with your spouse teaching or talking about things that you do not agree with?
This usually comes up in the context of teaching about gospel topic such as the law of chastity, modesty, priesthood, leadership, ...
Read MoreAfraid of what others will think?
My ancestors are pioneers. We are talking about covered wagons traveling from Far West to Salt Lake City. My extended family ...
Read MoreWhat to do if your marriage has been neglected?
There was a time when we were so busy strengthening our family we forget to strengthen our marriage. The two are ...
Read MoreHow to influence you spouse (It’s not what you think)
In your marriages you may find you want to be able to influence your spouse. To be a someone they listen ...
Read MoreConnection after Disconnection
Here is what happened. We were disconnected all week. Something was off. I was pretty sure he hated me and I ...
Read MoreHierarchy v Partnership
Many marriages are built on a hierarchical model. It works for some people to a certain extent. It provides clear roles ...
Read MoreCommunication Tip
I want to give you a little tip on communication. One way to improve communication is to remove the obstacles to ...
Read MoreIt Takes Practice
The other day a YW leader came by to drop something off my my kids (as all YW leaders will do). ...
Read MoreMormon? Unitarian? Agnostic? Atheist?
A faith transition can mean many things for your marriage. Sometimes the transitioning spouse will keep attending church but just not ...
Read MoreSelfish
I think one of the single biggest fears we bring into our mixed faith marriage is that we are being SELFISH. ...
Read MoreChange and Progression
Are you someone who freezes when faced with change in your marriage. Often the response to change is – this can’t ...
Read MoreMarriage Remodel
We are in the middle of a huge and extensive remodel project of our house. We have a mid century modern ...
Read MorePainful Conversations
Do you keep on having the same painful conversations over and over about tithing or church history or cultural norms versus ...
Read MoreCHANGE: A faith transition means change
Change can be disorienting for both spouses. Here I want to talk about how to handle change whether you are the ...
Read MoreBlame and Responsibility
It is not uncommon you and me to blame our partners for our emotions and and not take responsibility for them. ...
Read MoreThis is so hard!
I don’t even know how many times I have told myself this about my mixed faith marriage. It is so hard ...
Read MoreNot an ideal marriage
Do you believe that a mixed faith marriage is not an ideal marriage? If you do, you are not alone. I ...
Read MoreHow to communicate without fighting
Does it seem like every time you talk about church it ends up in a fight? I had a client come ...
Read MoreWalking on Eggshells
I have heard from my clients that if feels like they are walking on eggshells when it comes to talking about ...
Read MoreHow to stay together when you don’t go to church together
I was raised being taught that it is better to marry someone in your religion. It is better to go to ...
Read MoreCOST of Doing Nothing
For so many of us – Nothing is more important than our family and the core of that family is our ...
Read MoreFear
Fear This is such a powerful emotion. It arises a lot in my life and mostly about my future. -Will this mixed faith ...
Read MoreDecision Making
Two things are commonly agreed to challenge a marriage: mixed faith and remodeling. We are doing both. Decision making is paramount ...
Read MorePeople Pleasing
People don’t always associate people pleasing with a mixed faith marriage. People pleasing can run rampant in these types of marriages. ...
Read MoreWill this ever get better?
There was a point in my mixed faith marriage when I was sure that it was never going to get better. ...
Read MoreI am ruining everything.
I am ruining everything. This can be a common refrain for those who have It may prompt the following: I don’t ...
Read MoreI am right and they are wrong
There is a problem that many people have that causes them to be miserable, especially in their marriage. They think they ...
Read MoreI loved you more when you were active
A faith transition can change the balance in a marriage. It can “mess up” roles and expectations and schedules and traditions. ...
Read MoreFamily Photos
We just has our family photos taken. Four kids, two adults and one dog. It was quite the event. I (who ...
Read MoreHard Conversations
This past week my husband and I both read the Elder Holland talk that was given to BYU faculty. He is ...
Read MoreMirror Effect
Our spouses play many important roles in our lives. They can be our best friend or biggest advocate, our most painful ...
Read MoreEmotion v Logic
Many couples claim that one partner is logical and the other is emotional (and that this is a problem). Usually the ...
Read MoreEmotional Responsibility
A good wife makes her husband happy I want to help my husband feel better. Happy wife, happy life. Those sound ...
Read MoreLove Feel Amazing (NOT Terrible)
Love feel amazing. When we are feeing love we act lovingly. Often we get loved mixed up with other emotions. We ...
Read MoreHow Can I accept them? I don’t respect what they believe or think.
Many clients come to me and ask, “How Can I accept them? I don’t respect what they believe or think. I ...
Read MoreBoundaries
I have heard their is a need to establish boundaries in a Mormon mixed faith marriage. This may be true and ...
Read MoreHow to Feel Better About Your Mixed Faith Marriage
Our relationship we have with others is just the accumulation of thoughts we have about them. Our thoughts about what they ...
Read MoreConsequences
You are probably aware of long and short term consequences. When you eat a cupcake in the short term you get ...
Read MoreUs versus Them Mentality
There is a way our brains process and categorize people and events in our lives that I call the ‘us versus ...
Read MoreTestimonials
I would be remiss if I did not give a quick shoutout to Brooke Booth who has been a life saver of a mixed faith mormon mixed faith marriage coach for me personally and I can’t recommend her enough.
It is definitely a process for us all but I want you to know there is hope. I have come from some of the lowest lows to some beautiful highs during this process and feel like I have matured and evolved so much in this process and still retained my self identify as the ABM in my marriage.”
“Need help? Almost a year ago a site about mixed marriage came up, yes I’m in one. The key word to me that day was Help. It read, “Need help Lets talk,” it was a free call for an hour. I couldn’t go wrong. l needed to sort out my life. She listened and told me she could help. We went to work soon after that. Even the first call helped. It was the most important call I ever made. I went from a train wreck to someone who made a phone call that changed my life. Thanks Brooke,I can’t thank you enough if you need help, give her a call.”
Thanks Brooke for being a critical piece of my re framing my approach to my mixed faith Marriage and how I am choosing to show up in it. You have truly been key in my life changing and mind blowing experience and opening up a world of possibilities.- Dallas
Working with Brooke really helped me see how my thought patterns were contributing to my misery around my faith crisis and my mixed faith marriage. I now know that The only person I can change is myself, and that is more than enough! I’ve been able to use the tools she has taught me to successfully navigate the messiness of not only my mixed faith marriage, but other areas of my life. Thank you Brooke!- Christi