If it feels like things are just happening to you in your mixed faith marriage it may be time to implement adulting- the art of being an adult. This means taking full responsibility for your emotional life.
Do you wish your spouse would change (go to church/not go to church, read this/don’t read this, believe something/don’t believe something) so you can feel better about them and your marriage? This can be an uphill battle. Here I talk about how to focus on what you can control in your marriage so frustration is not showing up on a regular basis.