77. Conflict Tolerance and Conflict Intolerance

A LDS mixed faith marriage means the two partners have a conflict of opinion. Conflict is present. Learning to tolerate conflict is an important skill to develop in a mixed faith marriage. Here I talk about some reasons why we don’t develop it and the cost of underdeveloped conflict tolerance.

75. Criticism and Defensiveness Cycle

I’ve seen my clients in a mixed faith marriage struggle with the criticism and defensiveness cycle. In order to break a cycle it is important to understand it and take responsibility for it. This podcast starts you on that road and offers some questions to help you learn about your part in this cycle.

74. Care, Care Taking and Control

This week’s podcast discusses the difference between care and care taking. Often when we love someone deeply we want them to always be happy and never be hurt or disappointed. That’s a beautiful thing until we step past caring into caretaking which can open the door to control. In this episode I give several examples of what care and care taking looks like in a mixed faith marriage.