147. Mormon Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion – Extended Family

Three experienced life coaches talk about extended family in a mixed faith family.

In this podcast we discuss:

What has been your experience with your extended family as you have navigated your MFM?

How do you balance maintaining relationships with extended family while staying true to your own beliefs and marriage?

What are some ways to handle unsolicited advice or pressure from family about your mixed faith marriage?

How do you handle family gatherings or traditions when they conflict with your faith choices as a couple?

How can couples maintain their own emotional well-being when dealing with tension or conflict with extended family due to faith differences?

How can I set healthy boundaries?

What advice would you give to someone whose extended family is struggling to accept their spouse’s or their own change in faith?

 

Get help with your mixed faith marriage at BrookeBoothCoaching.com.

146. Watering Down Your Preferences

I have spoken in the past about the importance of preferences in communication. In this podcast I go a little deeper and explore one thing that can really prevent knowing and sharing your preferences and that is when you water them down before you even share then with yourself or with your spouse.

I also share what I think is the single most impactful antidote to watering down your preference and that is COURAGE.

For help with your mixed faith marriage go to BrookeBoothCoaching.com.

145. Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion : Sex and Sexuality

Three mixed faith marriage life coaches talk about sex and sexuality in this episode. Join myself, Chris Rich, and Suzette Halterman as we discuss how a faith transition can impact sex and one’s relationship with their own sexuality. We discuss questions such as:

How to deal with a partner exploring their sexuality?

How to deal with masturbation or porn?

How to deal with different sexual drives?

How to talk to kids about sex?

Get more support for your mixed faith marriage at BrookeBoothCoaching.com.

144. Weaponized Incompetence in a Mixed Faith Marriage

Weaponized incompetence has a real impact in a marriage. It can be exacerbated in a mixed faith marriage or it can be one more thing that strains a mixed faith marriage.

In this podcast I give some examples on weaponized incompetence in daily life and specific to a mixed faith marriage.

Weaponized incompetence that is going on unchecked can lead increase in resentment, a breakdown in communicate and eventually emotional disconnection.

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143. Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion: BLAME

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Blame is the topic of this month’s panel discussion.

Each month three mixed faith marriage coaches gather to talk all things mixed faith marriages. In this episode we tackle blame. Here is what we cover:

– The human tendency to blame and why that happens

-How to deal with being the receipt of blame

– How to deal with being the one who is blaming others or things

We go pretty deep in this one!

If you need help with your mixed faith marriage and are looking for a course go to BrookeBoothCoaching.com

141. Apologies and Trust Building

When there has been hurt and pain in a mixed faith marriage there needs to be both apologies and trust building. But PLEASE note they are not the same thing!

An apology does not automatically restore trust and safety.

An apology is a start and an important first step to re establishing trust.

In this podcast I give an example of a great trust building practice to develop in your marriage.

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140. Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion: SUNDAY

Chris Rich, Suzette Halterman and myself (Brooke Booth) meet again to discuss mixed faith marriages from both our personal and professional experience.

In this month’s discussion we talk about Sunday. We cover:

-What has worked and not worked for us

-Why Sunday is a hard day

-How to manage things like

-Issues we see when a spouse stops attending

-What about when a kid wants to stay home or go to church

-How to support kids/spouses re talks, primary programs etc

-How to manage Sunday dress and getting the kids ready

-What about social activities and keeping the Sabbath day holy

As always it is a rich and varied discussion.

To get more help with your mixed faith marriage go to BrookeBoothCoaching.com

139. Three Things I’ve Learned as a Life Coach for Mormons in a Mixed Faith Marriage

Here I share three lessons I have learned as I have worked with countless individuals and couples as they navigate a mixed faith marriage.

The 3 lessons are :

1. Perfection is not the goal

2. Talk about the issues

3. You are Okay

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138. You are not working as hard as I am

 

I have heard clients express frustration that their partner is not working as hard on the marriage as they are. They are not trying as hard. They are not investing as much. That hurts. A lot.

In this episode I explore what this kind of story tends to create in a marriage and offer some suggestions.

Ready for more help go to BrookeBoothCoaching.com.

137. Mixed Faith Marriage Panel Discussion: PARENTING

In this month’s mixed faith marriage panel discussion we talk about parenting.

As always we share our own wins and failures as well as the following:

-What are the pros and cons of being on the same page in parenting in a mixed faith marriage?

-How to deal with different parenting approaches to church activities, family prayer, and alcohol?

-How to manage when a child does not follow your faith footsteps?

-Tips on talking to your kids about the mixed faith marriage and faith transition.

If you need more help in your mixed faith marriage check out my full length on line course at BrookeBoothCoaching.com.