Selfishness is often at the root of many marriage problems. Here I challenge a common definition of selfish and suggest an alternative one.

Boundaries can be an important part of a mixed faith marriage and participating in a mixed faith extended family. Here I talk about the difference between a boundary and a request and how to implement a boundary.

In this short but important episode I talk about fear. Fear can present as a series of questions with very scary answers. Fear can undermine how we show up. And it doesn’t have to.

I hear a lot that it is important to be on the same page in a marriage, especially in parenting. Here I discuss that for many having different faith journeys is an example of not being in the same page. This can cause incredible pain. One approach is to look closer at the belief that you and your spouse need to be in the same page. That belief may be hurting more than helping.

Acting in a passive aggressive way is unfortunately common in a mixed faith marriage. Here I tell you about common ways passive aggression may appear in a marriage and why we often default to it.

There are often several phases that are part of a mixed faith marriage. Here I talk about the – Ignore it and Hope it Goes Away Phase, The Walking in Eggshell Phase and Why Can’t They Just Change Phase (among others). There is also a Happily Ever After phase. It’s also known as acceptance.

Here I address 10 things that indicate you need help in your marriage. Often we put off getting help. An investment in your marriage pays off for years and with compound interest!

Here I talk about how to deal with those painful things our spouse’s sometimes dish out to us in a mixed faith marriage.

Many clients come to me with a deep concern around what others will think about their faith transition or their spouse’s faith transition. It can be a paralyzing fear. Here I discuss why we have this fear.