Many clients come to me with a deep concern around what others will think about their faith transition or their spouse’s faith transition. It can be a paralyzing fear. Here I discuss why we have this fear.

If you are facing a baby blessing, baptism, ordination or other event you may be anxious or concerned about how to even approach the event. Here I discuss my own experiences with our children and suggest some questions to ask yourself to help you manage these events.

Making decisions in a mixed faith marriage can be painful- but it does not have to be. If you want to make decisions around kids, baptism, Sunday attendance and more it is helpful to take a close look at your current decision making process. If decisions ultimately leave you frustrated, it may be time to change the decision making process used in your marriage.

This is part 2 of a 3 part series on communication. Here I share a tool that will help you succeed in having a difficult conversation in your mixed faith marriage.

There are a few things to consider when you talk to your spouse about your or their faith transition. This podcast addresses a few key things to consider.

Guilt and shame almost invariably show up in a mixed faith marriage whether you are the active believing spouse or the spouse with the faith transition. The issue with guilt and shame is they do not motivate us and help us show up in helpful ways.

When faced with emotions in your mixed faith marriage there are a few ways you can respond. My recommendation is to process those emotions. Emotional processing is a skill anyone can develop. You just need to learn how and practice.

People pleasing is common in Mormon mixed faith marriages. It is one of the biggest blocks to emotional intimacy and causes tons of resentment.

We often default to certain roles when things get challenging in our mixed faith marriage. These roles may be undermining your goals and your marriage. Awareness of the roles is key to stepping out.

If you believe a mixed faith marriage is hard and not ideal, you will most like experience a marriage that is hard and not ideal. There is another choice.